Whenever I read the conversation, recorded in Luke 10:25-37, between Jesus and “an expert in the law” regarding “who is my neighbor,” l am reminded of my tendency to lean into my biased attitudes and behaviors toward others. Yes, I have biases, both good and bad. And yes, at times I have tried to justify my attitudes and behaviors by redefining “neighbor” according to my own “preferred” (biased) comfort level. But then I read Jesus’ “Samaritan story” response to the “religious expert’s” question about who is “neighbor” and am sternly reminded that such questioning is to be out of order.
The correct questioning is not “Who is my neighbor” but “How can I be neighbor”to every person I encounter each day. And to do so with all biases removed. Yes, even including the neighbor who is frequently at my door wanting something from me.
The Gospel writers consistently portray Jesus as teaching and modeling that being “neighbor” is more about loving the other with acts of kindness rather than simply speaking kindly. Jesus’ story of the “Samaritan who did good,” is only one example. On another occasion he told a wealthy “wanna-be” disciple to “Go, sell everything you have and give to the poor, and you will have treasure in heaven. Then come, follow me.” (Mark 10:21).
In Matthew 25:31-46 we hear Jesus describing the end-time judgment and its separation criteria. In verses 44-45 we read: “They also will answer, ‘Lord, when did we see you hungry or thirsty or a stranger or needing clothes or sick or in prison and did not help you?’ He will reply, ‘Truly I tell you, whatever you did not do for one of the least of these, you did not do for me.”
In his devotional book, “A Daily Walk Through Romans” Myron Augsburger writes, “There is a cost in love, for when you love someone, their experience is shared with you, their problems become your problems. Love is far deeper than tolerance; it calls for repentance while tolerance doesn’t require change. Love does not select. Love shares totally with the person. When we love we identify honestly, openly, fully. Paul states his admonition simply but profoundly: “Let love be genuine.”
To be like Jesus in being a neighbor of love and compassion is often difficult, costly, and sometimes dangerous. But these difficult experiences are also opportunities for us to deepen our relationship with God as we lean into him for discerning love needed in the moment. We can do so with the assurance that God will always keep his promise. I have found it to be so! In Hebrews 13:5 we read: “Never will I leave you; never will I forsake you.”
Below is a prayer hymn by Elisha A. Hoffman that I love to sing, because it expresses the deep desire of my heart, and I hope of your heart as well. May it be our prayer as we journey with Jesus in this world.
“Lord, I am fondly, earnestly longing
into thy holy likeness to grow,
thirsting for more and deeper communion,
yearning thy love more fully to know.”
“Dead to the world would I be, O Savior,
dead unto sin, alive unto thee.
Crucify all the earthly within me,
emptied of sin and self may I be.”
“I would be thine and serve thee forever,
filled with thy Spirit, lost in thy love.
Come to my heart, Lord, come with anointing,
showers of grace send down from above.
(Chorus)
“Open the wells of grace and salvation,
pour the rich streams deep into my heart.
Cleanse and refine my thought and affection,
seal me and make me pure as thou art.”
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Ray M. Geigley – “Healing Rays of Righteousness” – www.geigler13.wordpress.com – 8/12/26
